Health is not about perfection; it is all about progression.  Making one high-quality choice at a time and building on your daily momentum to achieve life-long health and happiness.   Our society presses us to be quick about everything; 30-second commercials, limited-time offers, pills and cleanses to lose the pounds fast.  We’re called to be quick and efficient in all that we do, but when it comes to our health we must slow down and be steady.   

Transform means to change in form, appearance, structure or in condition, nature or character.  This is such a powerful group of words; for us to achieve health we must change our current habit structure, shift the years of conditioning we’ve learned, nurture our unique nature and know that the challenges we face along the way help transform our character.  And a bonus to all of it is that our appearance will automatically transform because of all this change that takes place; it’s inevitable.   

There’s a rule I ask all my clients to follow and that is “above all else, be kind and true to YOU.”  With our fast-paced lives, our need to please, and our want for a quick fix it can be difficult to patiently transform.  We dive in, go all out and then lose patience, get mad at ourselves, feel guilty, and sabotage all the work we’ve put in.  These behaviors do not serve us in any positive way and yet they are so common.     

What can you do today to start your personal transformation in a positive, patient way?  Here are a few ideas you can choose from to get started: 

1. Drink 80 oz of water; every process in your body needs it.

2. Eat 2 cups of leafy greens every day. 

3. Eat 4 cups of vegetables every day. 

4. Eat 1-2 servings of healthy fat every day. 

5. Eat clean, organic sources of protein every day.   

6. Never skip a meal; get your 3 squares in daily.   

7. Turn off the technology. 

8. Sit, talk and laugh with the ones you love. 

9. Read something that inspires you to live in a better way. 

10. Move daily; lift weights, go to yoga, or dance the night away. 

11. Thank someone for their kindness. 

12. Enjoy a hot cup of herbal tea. 

13. Stop eating 2 hours before bed. 

14. Shut the TV and computer off 2 hours before bed. 

15. Take an Epsom salt and lavender bath. 

16. Get 8 hours of sleep each night. 

17. Rise early and enjoy time for prayer, meditation and intention. 

18. Offer yourself forgiveness & release any guilt you might feel. 

19. Write down 10 things your grateful for every morning and night. 

20. Show up in your best manner & release the need to please others.   

Try to employ a few of these of these tactics in your daily life this week to jumpstart your health and wellness transformation!

XO,

Stress impacts the whole body.  When a stressful situation occurs, the nervous system responds and immediately increases cortisol and adrenaline to prepare the body for emergency action.  Your heart rate and blood pressure increase, muscles tighten, you may feel nauseous, and begin breathing harder.  Although this is a natural response to stress it is not natural to experience it daily. 

Daily stress brings on a lot of consequence that includes everything from difficulty concentrating to fatigue, weight gain and depression.  So how can this stress cycle be stopped to allow calm amid chaos?   The key is choosing to participate differently. 

1. Create supportive, healthy boundaries.  Take inventory of your daily activities and decide if adjustment is needed to alleviate stress in your life.  Create buffers in the day so you can move in a fluid way without the anxiousness and stress of being overscheduled.  Carve out blocks of time to focus solely on a project and to answer emails and voicemails.  In the evening allow space for the activities you enjoy such as light exercise, connection with friends, and quiet time to read.  

1. Breathe.  Offer your body the gift of breath; it is free, portable and accessible any time yet it is rarely used to its full capacity.  Take a slow, deep breath in through the nose, filling the abdomen like a balloon.  Pause and then slowly exhale through the nose as you contract the abdomen to push out all the air.  Repeat.  The gift of breath will calm the body and provide you a new perspective on the situation. 

1. Say no.  This can be a challenging but necessary assignment if you want to reduce stress in your life.  Before making any decision, ask yourself “What will this provide me?”.  This one simple question will help you decide whether your participation will cause you angst, or move you in the direction of stress-free living.  By pausing and asking yourself this question, you will be able to make a conscious choice instead of one out of convenience, haste, or guilt.  Kindly express thanks and gratitude for the opportunity and say no.  It really is as easy as that.   

1. Give permission.  You are in control of your response in every situation in life but you cannot control the response of others.  Before any stressful conversation silently say to the other person, “I give you permission to respond however you need to respond.”   This one simple act will allow you to express your thoughts and concerns and release control of the other persons response.  Stress happens when we worry about the unknown, or try to please another person and fall short.  Choose to do what is best for you, be kind to yourself in the process, and provide permission for others to do the same.   

1. Use the power of word.  Words often feed stress in the body more than the situation itself!  What if instead of saying “I just don’t have enough time” you shifted your mindset by saying “I have all the time I need.”  Just through the power of word you provided space to accomplish the task at hand with grace, focus, and calm instead of being frazzled and stressed out.  You can also recite phrases like “all is well” “I am enough” or “I release all control” to set the stage for a positive experience.   

Stress will always be present in life; the good news is you get to choose how you want to participate in it!  Advocate for yourself, create a supportive environment and know that you have everything you need to live stress-free.   

XO,

Before catching a flight back home the other day, I decided to connect with nature on an hour-long walk.  The air was crisp as ever, and the sunshine lit up the blue sky.  I’m always inspired by nature, but today everything seemed raw, and stripped down.  Pine needles covered the ground and the trees were losing many of their red, orange and yellow leaves.  Little squirrels played chase around the trunks of the Ponderosa pines while others collected acorns from the ground; I thought of all the work they’d need to do to prepare for winter to arrive.

There’s something genuinely beautiful about the trees baring themselves; losing their leaves and needles, they show off their many knots, scars, and weathered beauty.  This comes without reservation; no choice to be had.  It’s a season in their life cycle that allows them to shed what is no longer necessary and as a result, allows new life in.

What if you were to bare all and take this season of fall harvest, family connection and holiday celebration to shed what is no longer necessary?  We function differently than the tree; we have a choice, and we also experience fear and vulnerability.  So the question begs to be asked, how will it serve you to stay in your place of fear and vulnerability versus shedding what is no longer necessary in your life?

It is when we step through our fear and open ourselves to vulnerability that we’re able to be fulfilled.  Just as the tree, it is the time for you to shed what is no longer necessary in order to let new life in.

In the coming week I’d like you to keep a notepad and paper near you throughout the day, (or type notes into your smartphone instead).  Be very aware of your daily routine, your relationships, and habits.  How are these things in your life serving you in a positive way?  What things could you release into the crisp fall air so new life can be welcomed in?

Keep a running list of things as they come to you.  Maybe it’s time to purge the pantry, donate the clothes that no longer serve you, or have a heart to heart conversation with a loved one.  While the need for release is a common thread for all, the list you create will be unique for each of you.   Once you create your list, you’ll need to prioritize your tasks in order to purge, release, and bare it all.

There’s so much we can learn about ourselves when we decide to follow nature’s guidance.  In times of chaos we can tap into the stillness of the tree.  When you feel the need to control everything, you can observe how water flows right over the boulders and rocks that sit in its way.  We all need different things at different times in our lives.  What is it that you need to connect most with right now?

It’s a pleasure to serve you!  Feel free to email me with comments or questions: connect@angelagaffney.com.

Cheers to your health and happiness,

RECIPE:

Cream of Pumpkin Soup

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Recipe adapted by Angela Gaffney compliments of www.allrecipes.com

Between the weather changing, having children back in school, and spending much more time indoors, it’s unfortunately inevitable that at some point those pesky germs will get the best of us. When you do find yourself with a cold or the flu, follow these tips for beating the bug and getting healthy as quickly as possible!